Who We Really Are

Lately we have had our share of news focused on racial division and petty immature political behavior that has sparked violence in our land.  Sadly, there is and will always be divisive and violent behavior in this sin-scarred world.  We were not very far as a human race when Cain killed his own brother Able.  However; while there evil, hatred, racism and violence is part of our existence do not give up hope…this is not who we really are at our core.  If that were so, we would have destroyed each other a long time ago.  In the midst of the evil, hatred, racism and violence that is so often presented on our news stations there is another side to the human race.  By the way we need to remember that the so called ‘news reporting’ exists like everything else you see on TV, it is there only to make money for the owners and sponsors.  People are naturally drawn to reporting and exposure of sensational stories of violence and misbehavior so that is what is primarily presented. 

That is not who we, as a people, really are.  All one has to do today is look at the Houston, TX area.  They have been hit with the worst storm in history.  There is catastrophic flooding.  People are literally trapped in their homes due to the epic flooding.  Here is where we show who we really are.  There is more traffic flowing into these flooded areas than traffic flowing out.  The heavy traffic flowing in is primarily made up of trucks pulling a boat trailer.  We don’t need to be told that people need help.  We don’t need to wait for the government or some agency to assist those in need.  We see a need and we go.  That’s who we are!  It does not matter what ethnic group or political party one may be, when there is a need we help one another.  I have seen and experienced this time and time again in my life.

I was serving some 50 churches as their associational missions director on September 11, 2001.  The day after we all saw the twin towers collapse in New York I began to receive numerous calls and e-mails asking how we could help and where to send money to help the people in New York.  That’s who we are!  We see fellow brothers and sisters in need and we help.  II Corinthians 1:4 praises “the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” The Greek that is translated as our English word ‘comfort’ actually comes from two words that mean ‘stand beside’.  God promises to stand beside us in our troubles.  We are not always free from troubles as we live in a world that has been inhabited by sin.  If you remember your Bible lessons from Genesis mankind opened the door for sin to enter this world by deciding to do what ‘we’ desire rather than what God commanded.  However, God has always promised to stand beside us in these times of trouble. 

His compassion enables and inspires us to stand beside those who are going through trouble.  This is what drives people to give of their time, energy and resources to help strangers who are going through similar difficulty.  This is who we are.  This is why we are drawn together in difficulty because the desire to help one another crossed racial and political barriers.  There will always be those who are evil, divisive and violent no matter what the situation may be but they are in the minority.  They may receive most of the attention but they are not who we are. 

Some of the most rewarding times I spent as a minister were on disaster relief missions.  I was a Blue Hat for our local Southern Baptist Disaster Relief team.  That meant I was often the leader of a team of trained volunteers who would go, at our own expense, to assist people and communities who had suffered floods, tornados, hurricanes or other natural disasters.  We would sleep in our sleeping bags in churches, parking lots, gymnasiums, etc.  We would work hard all day sawing trees, cleaning debris from floods, providing food as needed for those who needed help.  Each night we would be exhausted from the difficult work of helping people in the midst of the disaster however, we had never experienced such emotional energy in the midst of our physical fatigue.  There is no greater paycheck that the smile or word of gratitude from someone you have helped along the way. 

The Bible tells us that we are created in God’s image.  There is no greater display of His image in us than when we are reaching out to help others, especially when we reach out to help the stranger or those who can never repay us.  That is who we are at our core of existence.  So don’t get discouraged at what often seems to be a growing world of hatred and division.  Evil, violence, wars and rumors of war are going to be with us until Jesus comes but that is not who most of us are.  Remember the words of the prophet Elisha from long ago as he was seeking to teach his assistant to open his eyes and see beyond the huge army of the enemy that had them surrounded.  We can become like the assistant who panicked when it seemed that those who want to cause harm are everywhere.  Focusing on the troubles of this world that are easily visible can certainly be discouraging.  When you despair and become fixated at what seems to be a growing destructive and evil world all around you, remember the words of the prophet.  Elisha calmly told his panicked assistant (and us) not to be afraid, “Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.”

Open your eyes.  Look beyond the easily visible troubles of this world and see the comfort God has given you in your times of trouble as you then offer that same comfort those around you in their times of trouble.  

“Man Plans, and God Laughs.”

“Mann Tracht, Un Gott Lacht” is an old Yiddish adage meaning, “Man Plans, and God Laughs.” Despite our most careful planning, the road of life is unpredictable. We might have driving and destination strategies but scenic new vistas might beckon us or unforeseen roadblocks can deter us. Our best-laid plans in life can be upended by unexpected changes, which could be either disappointing or exhilarating. Personal or other setbacks, losses of loved ones, illnesses or accidents, broken hearts or tortured souls, are not uncommon occurrences in our lives. On the other hand, life can provide unanticipated good fortune or heartening experiences.  Thus we all live with some degree of uncertainty both on a personal basis as well as from a national and international perspective.  The latter is especially so considering the ominous news of upheavals in Mother Nature, health scares, and domestic and military violence.  That uncertainty can give us a great sense of adventure or lead to depression since we don’t know how things are going to turn out.  So what do we do?  Let me share a lesson from my own 65 years that I hope will be helpful to you.  First let me share some context.

40 years ago I thought I had my life set.  I was following God’s call to preach.  When I was in my first year at seminary God seemed to give me a verse that I would guide me toward my future.  The verse was Proverbs 16:3, “Commit your works to the Lord and your plans will be established.”  I found that verse in my New American Standard Bible.  I thought that verse spoke directly to me but I did not know I was misinterpreting the real meaning.  I thought since I had committed my life to be a preacher that my plans would be established and blessed by God.  In my thinking I had discerned that God had called me to be a single bi-vocational preacher somewhat like the Apostle Paul.  I had a business degree and business experience so, like Paul, I could make a living and not depend on churches to pay me a salary.  Although I grew up in Mississippi, for some reason (maybe it was to get away from the oppressive heat from the south) I sensed that God was calling me to Oregon to be a single, bi-vocational church planter.  I was in my last year at seminary getting ready to head to the northwest to follow my plan.  Then something happened that taught me a better translation and understanding of the verse and the way God really works in our lives.  The New International Version gives a better translation as follows, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”  In other words, if we commit our lives to God, He will establish the plans for your life.  His plans are always best since He created us and knows what is best for us in the long run. 

Now back to the something that changed everything.  I was in my last year at seminary and focused on my ‘plan’ when I saw a first year female seminary student in a red dress.  She captured my attention like no other.  I wound up meeting her and realized I had not met anyone like her.  Let me cut to the chase.  We married 37 years ago today and I wound up spending most of my career as a married full-time minister in South Carolina which is quite a bit distant, in almost every way, from my plan of being a single bi-vocational church planter in Oregon. 

Here is the point.  We may have our plans.  We may think our plans are good.  We may think our plans will honor and please God.  However, only God knows the future.  Thus the Yiddish proverb, God simply smiles or even laughs at our plans.  He alone knows the future.  He alone knows what is best for us.  That is why the correct understanding of Proverbs 16:3 tells us that if we commit whatever we do to Him the He will be able to establish HIS plan for our lives.  Since He loves us with an everlasting love and knows the future, His plan will be the best for us. 

As I look back I am eternally grateful that God’s plan led me to Cathy which led to a great adventure for our lives, which still continues.  God has blessed us with two wonderful daughters who have grown up to be women that are the pride of my life.  God has allowed me to go places and do things that I never would have dreamed in my ‘plan’.  So, no matter where you are in life’s journey, commit daily to give yourself to God and He will establish his good and perfect plan for your life. 

Boiled Okra

I recently had my 65th birthday.  If you want to send a late gift, cash is always appropriate.  Notice that I simply said that I ‘had’ my 65th birthday.  Birthdays are celebrated more often when we are young.  At this age every day you wake up is a cause for celebration.  Psalm 90:10 says, “Our days may come to seventy years, or eighty, if our strength endures; yet the best of them are but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away.”  On my 65^th birthday I really needed to hear God tell me my days ‘may’ come to 70 years.  When one reaches the time of life to retire, the age to qualify for Medicare and the age when the Bible says that our days may come to 70 years it can truly get one’s attention. 

Wow, God says ‘maybe’ 70 years…and I am 65!  He did say 80 if our strength endures so I joined a gym.  My primary exercise routine during my working career was to start the day with either a push-up or a sit-up, depending on whether I woke face down or on my back.  If I woke on my side I considered it a day off from that exercise routine and just rolled out of bed.  Now that I am retired I have time to do the serious exercise that I had intended to do for several years.  So far I’ve lost 25 pounds.  My goal was to go from my starting weight of 192 pounds to 165 pounds on my 65th birthday.  I missed it by one pound but I felt like it was OK to eat some cake and ice cream anyway.  But I digress; cake and ice cream tend to have that effect on me, back to the wake-up call on realizing how old I had become. 

My first thought was, “How did I get here so quickly?”  Then, “I wonder how much time I have left?”  The second question naturally arrives as one does the research to determine if this is a good time to retire, is there is enough money in one’s retirement account to possibly last the remaining years of one’s life or when is the best time to apply for Social Security.  My study showed that the average life span for an American male is 79.  I also looked at my own family history.  I added the ages of my grandparents and parents at the time of their death and divided by 6 and the average was 79.  WOW!!!  The average American lifespan is 79.  The average lifespan from my family history is 79.  The Bible says ‘maybe’ 70 or 80.  I just turned 65.  That really got my attention.  If I don’t get hit by a truck tomorrow and live the average age for an American male and a member of my family I may have only 14 years left.  When I was in my mid-thirties (which seems like another life-time ago as well as a blink of the eye at the same time) I preached a message stating that, “according the average life span for an American male my current age places me half-way there and if the last half goes as quickly as the first half…that’s scary!”  If being at the half-way mark got my attention in my mid-thirties, I can promise you that the rapid way life seems to move now has my full appreciation.  

Without trying to sound morbid in my thinking on such matters, I am trying to focus more on the importance of making the most of each moment as life on this planet seems to zip along at a frightening pace.  Perhaps a story from one of my seminary professors will help make my point. 

Dr. Lacoste Munn was a beloved teacher for many at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.  I took New Testament and Greek classes under his tutelage.  I was always impressed with his knowledge and teaching skills and he also had a unique sense of humor that made learning fun.  In fact, his students often spoke of ‘Fun with Munn’.  Although it has been some 40 years since I sat in his classes I still remember much of what he taught, as well as many of his stories.  A favorite of mine was what I call the Boiled Okra story.  I may not do justice to the way Dr. Munn told the story but I remember it something like this; A man owned two hound dogs who loved leftovers.  They waited at the back door for their owner to toss out any leftover food.  When he did toss out leftover food they both would leap into the air trying to get the jump on each other to get to the food first.  He always got a kick out of seeing the dogs compete with each other in such a manner as they gobbled the food before it hit the ground.  One day his wife made some boiled okra.  As one can imagine there was quite a bit left over.  As the dogs heard the door open they scrambled toward the anticipated feast.  He took the bowl of boiled okra and tossed it out the back door.  As usual both dogs leapt into the air seeking to gain an advantage and get to the food first.  However, the dog that got to the okra first had it slide down his throat so quickly that he thought he missed and bit the other dog thinking that he got the food. 

The moral of the story is to slow down and savor life.  When we gulp things down too quickly we often miss the pleasure of the moment.  As the old saying goes, "It is not the years in your life but the life in your years that counts."  Jesus told us never to worry about tomorrow (Matthew 6:34) but to focus on making the most of today.  All through the Bible we are taught to live for today making the most of the moment at hand.  We are not guaranteed to be here tomorrow, or even this afternoon.  James 4:14 tells illustrates this truth this way, “You don’t know what will happen tomorrow. What is life? You are a mist that is seen for a moment and then disappears.”  This very moment is the only time we know we have for certain.  When we really understand this truth we should pause and truly savor each moment we have.  We should never ‘gulp’ down any moment but focus on the beauty of each miraculous breath and savor the time with those with whom we share each second. 

I know believers look forward to an eternity of life after our exit from this world but I have always believed that God wants us to make the most of everyday we are here.  That’s why He continually reminds us that our time on earth is brief.  I like the way this philosophy was expressed by Colonel Jack Jacobs who said, “I believe in getting the most out of life because I am going to be dead a long time.”

Over 40 years ago I preached my first sermon from John 10:10 where Jesus said, “I have come in order that you might have life—life in all its fullness.”   Every moment of anger, frustration, bitterness, jealousy, etc. robs us of the fullness Jesus came to give us.  So whatever your age may be and no matter how busy things become, remember tomorrow is not guaranteed and if does come it will arrive quickly as each moment passes quickly and is gone forever.  Take time to slow down and savor the moment.  Let go of any anger or frustration and forgive as quickly as possible.  Don't delay any opportunity to life life in all its fullness.  Look for joy, love and laughter in every situation.  Take the word of an ‘old sage’ (I can call myself that now), this is the best way to live!

Have a Blessed Day!

A year ago, after I retired, a friend contacted me and asked if I would be interested in walking with him for exercise each morning.  He is a couple of years younger than me and not ready for full-time retirement but he had just had knee replacement surgery and needed the exercise.  I am the ideal weight for a man who is 6’ 4”.   I am 5’ 7” so I am not overweight but ‘under-tall’.   Since I have been unsuccessful at growing the needed inches I guess the exercise couldn’t hurt.  

Anyway he comes to my house at 7 am and we walk a couple of miles through my neighborhood.  Since we are both ministers our conversation often consists of how we would fix the problems of the world.  As a chronic early riser I have usually flipped through most of the news channels before he arrives to see what happened while I slept.  This usually depresses me and I promised him I would not use the time while we are walking to gripe about the declining state of so many situations in the world.  However, I never dreamed what God had in store to inspire me on our morning walks. 

Every Tuesday morning the garbage men make the rounds in my neighborhood picking up the garbage.  I know they are now often referred to as sanitation workers but political correctness has never been my strong suit.  Anyway, the large truck comes down the street with two workers on the back and they stop in front of each house to make their weekly collection.  The two guys hop off and collect the trash from the container we have left out by the street, if we don’t forget to put it out on Monday evening. 

They have become accustomed to seeing us and we exchange friendly waves but one of the guys who ride the back of the truck is always especially friendly and displays a positive and inspiring attitude.  He doesn’t seem to be bothered by the weather or the task at hand, which is not the most pleasant and fragrant way to make a living.  Now I realize that we are not to be judgmental but most of us would not seek to grow up to become garbage collectors.  Those jobs are not typically the most glamorous and are not usually at the upper end of the pay scale.  And if I wound up in that vocation I would rather be the guy who drives the big truck sitting in the warm cab away from the weather and odors rather than the guy hanging on the back that picks up the trash.  But here he is, hanging on the back exposed to weather unpleasant odors but every week always giving an enthusiastic greeting and as they drive away he encourages us to “Have a blessed day!” 

He reminds me of two verses, first Philippians 4:12-13 tells us that the secret to finding contentment in life is not based on wealth, success or positive circumstances.  Paul was unjustly imprisoned when all he was doing was sharing the good news of Jesus when he wrote; “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” Contentment is found in doing all things through Jesus who gives us strength for the situation. 

The second verse is 1 Corinthians 10:31.  That same apostle Paul, wrote the following to remind believers that everything we do; our words, deeds, work, recreation…WHATEVER we do should honor God: “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”

I know we live in a sin-scarred unjust world where bad things happen to good people.  I know that life can throw us unexpected situations the discourage us.  It is easy to get downcast when we see all the injustice in the world and life seems unfair as things don’t go our way or the way we expected them to go.  But if a guy can get up early every morning and know that his day will consist of hanging on the back of a smelly garbage truck collecting more garbage for minimal pay and do it consistently with a positive attitude while shouting blessings to inspire two old preachers, why can’t we inspire and bless someone we may encounter today?

Being Mary

One year ago today I began a new chapter in my life.  I retired.  I began working, and getting paid for my labor, when I was a young teenager.  My first job was bagging groceries at the Big Star food store nearly 50 years ago.  Since then I’ve had 19 different jobs (that I can remember, and yes I counted.  I know, there’s therapy for such behavior).  I drove delivery trucks, worked in factories making such things as doors, mobile homes and auto license plates.  Most states use prison inmates to make license plates but that is another story.  I was a children’s daycare counselor, sold men’s clothing, upholstered furniture, and roofed houses.  I even worked as a debt collector.  Now that’s really another story.  Oh yeah, I also did a little work as a minister…for forty years.

All those different jobs gave me a well-rounded experience and viewpoint about life.  They also made me very tired.  I was raised to ‘give a day’s work for a day’s pay’.  I wasn't a workaholic but a hard worker, whether it was a minimum wage summer job or a career position with a six-figure salary, I gave it my best.  I was conscientious, meticulously organized and dedicated to the task.

Retirement has been quite an adjustment.  Shifting gears from having primary responsibility and ‘being in charge’ for most of my career hasn’t always been easy.  Most days I enjoy activities of my own choosing but there are also days where I’ve been bored and felt useless with absolutely nothing to do.  The latter has been the more difficult adjustment for a hyper person like me. 

People ask, “What are you doing now that you have retired?”  My initial answer was; “I have been trying to live each day following 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 where the Bible says, “to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.”  Leading a quiet self-sufficient life is actually more suitable to my natural personality.  I am really more comfortable as an introvert than the extroverted personality often expected for a minister.  But God called into the ministry and gifted me for the task so I put my shy nature aside and worked hard at following God’s call to teach, preach and live the truth of the Gospel even when it ran counter to my preferred personality.  Don’t get me wrong I’m not complaining.  It has been a wonderful and exciting adventure. 

However, I learned there is a difference in doing what is expected and what God desires.  There is also a difference in ‘working for’ and ‘walking with’ the Lord.  As a hyper guy driven by a strong work ethic, I fit well in Baptist church life.  I think we have an unspoken theology that the busier we are the less likely we are to fall into sinful activities.  “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop and idle hands are the devil’s tools.”  I often shared my favorite church poem; “Mary had a little lamb.  It would have been a sheep.  But it joined a Baptist Church and died from lack of sleep.”  We even had a song in our hymnal entitled, ‘We'll Work Till Jesus Comes’!  We love to stay busy doing good for God.  I worked hard studying theology, Hebrew, Greek, and anything else that would help me understand and teach the most accurate truth of God’s word, which was good.  But, I also learned that there were times when my ‘good’ activities clouded and distracted me from a more personal walk with Jesus.  When one closes out distractions, one can more clearly spend quality time hearing Jesus.   Now, there is nothing wrong with much of the activity that comes with church work, until it gets in the way of walking with God.  I often said, “One of Satan’s favorite activities is to get believers involved in a good cause.”  One can get so busy that one can miss the joy of just being with Jesus.  It can become easy to fall into the routine of working hard to please others (and self) rather than doing what God desires. That's a real danger for dedicated busy church members and ministers. 

So now when people ask, “What do you do now?” I have learned a better response; “I realized that I spent 40 years working hard being ‘Martha’ and now I am enjoying being ‘Mary’”.  That declaration comes from the following scripture; Luke 10:38-42, “As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him.  She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”    

       

I realized that over the years I had often become distracted by “all the preparations that had to be made”.  There were times when, like Martha, I would become worried and upset over “many things”.  Oh, I was sincere with good intentions but there were always things that “needed” to be done.  And I often thought if I didn’t do them then they wouldn’t get done  or they wouldn’t get done well or the way I thought they should be done (OK I admit it!  Happy?).  Jesus told Martha, and those of us who get busy with “all the preparations”, that actually only a “few things are needed—or indeed only one.  Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

As I cleaned out my office that had become crowded over the years with books, writings, sermons, certificates, plaques, awards, etc. I realized much of the stuff I worked long and hard in accumulating is temporary.  Most has now been either given away or is in boxes in my attic and garage. While being busy with the “preparations that had to be made” seemed important at the time nothing should ever get in the way of simply enjoying time with Jesus. That activity will continue into eternity.  That’s why the better choice of Mary who “sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said”, will not be taken away. 

So, what am I doing now that I have retired? I am enjoying being more like Mary.  As a product of the Mississippi public school system perhaps I was a slow learner.  I guess I had to retire in order to fully get it.  But let me share this little secret with you: no matter what age or place you may be in your life or career or how demanding things may seem to be, you can ‘choose what is better’ today!  You don’t have to retire or stop good work in your church, community or charity just don’t get caught in the trap, as Martha and I did, of being so busy that you miss the pure joy of just spending time sitting “at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said”.  Jesus knew Martha loved Him as much as Mary did, as do I.  Jesus also knew Martha meant well, as did I.  He loved Martha as much as He loved Mary, as He also loves us.  But, Mary found the secret to greater blessings and joy in her life and relationship with Jesus and it was never taken away.  So as your days unfold don’t get too busy to just sit at the Lord’s feet and listen to what He says.  

“You’re going to be OK!”

“You’re going to be OK!”  The older I get the more I realize how important and comforting that sentence can be…especially if it comes from one with knowledge and authority.  In 2001 I had two major surgeries for a rare and life threatening illness with unusual complications that caused my surgeon to recommend a specialist in another state with a reputation as one of the best in the world.  Obviously it paid off because I am still here some 15 years later.  Each year I make the journey back to the huge medical complex in another state for tests to make sure all is still well with my health.  It always means a lot to hear from those with knowledge and authority that I am going to be OK. 

Several years ago I realized the age to consider retirement was rapidly approaching.  Math was never my strong suit but I each birthday with a zero at the end got my attention.   So I began research to see how feasible and at what age retirement would be for me.  I am an overly obsessive thinker.  I have always walked the tightrope between obsessive thoughts and OCD behavior (the D means disorder which can have a negative or crippling effect on the way one lives).  The OCD personality obsesses over making the ‘right’ decision.  “Did I make the right decision?  Should I go back and change my mind?” etc.  Well, I didn’t struggle with every decision, when it comes to deciding if I want pizza the choice is easy buy the more weight a decision carries the harder my obsessive compulsive tendencies kick in.  I almost drove myself crazy buying my first house.  Over the years I learned the secret to keep the obsessive compulsive thoughts from becoming full blown OCD is to focus on learning to live with the ‘best’ decision rather than obsessing on making the ‘right’ decision.  The decision on major surgeries was easy… let’s see, two major surgeries in six months or death…Duh!

However, when it came to retirement, which is often the final major decision in life (one article called it the ‘final adjustment’, I guess that means someone else can decide on the casket), I found myself wrestling with those obsessive compulsive thought patterns again.  I sought the opinion of ‘experts’.  I read and studied the writings and opinions of famous professional financial advisors.  I used every retirement calculator I could find.  However, I still needed to be affirmed.  So I did an internet search on the top 10 financial advisers in my state.  Then I narrowed the search to those in a reasonable driving distance.  Finally, I sought those from financial institutions with a long solid history.  After all the research I was led to the person who best met my qualifications.  She used her vast expertise and tools available to analyze my portfolio and prospects.  She gave me charts, graphs & projections and advice.  It was worth all the time spent in research and the work when she looked me in the eye and said simply, “You’re going to be OK!” 

It is hard to express what it means when a doctor, with a world respected reputation, looks you in the eye and speaking of your health says, “You’re going to be OK!”  Then to have one of the best financial advisors who works for one of the most respected financial institutions in the country speak to you of your retirement prospects smile and say, “You’re going to be OK!”  When one with authority and wisdom utters that brief sentence even an obsessive compulsive thinker can find peace that allows a good night’s sleep.  However, there is a matter more important than health or financial security. 

When this life is over and eternity waits wouldn’t it be great to have someone with knowledge and authority say, “You’re going to be OK!”  Well, there’s good news for you.  His name is Jesus and he gave us that ultimate affirmation in John 14:1-4.  Jesus knew his time on earth was drawing to a close and his disciples needed affirmation that would carry them through the difficult days ahead.  He told them (and all future disciples); “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.” 

In the concise and profound way that only Jesus could do (remember John 1:14, He is the Word in flesh) we are told we don’t have to worry that there is plenty room in Heaven and He, who learned carpentry as a boy with His earthly father, will prepare a place just for us.  So we don’t have to fret when this life is over because He, who has already experience death and knows what it is like, will come to escort us to our eternal home to be with Him forever.  Now remember this affirmation is coming from one who has ultimate authority (see Matthew 28:18).  He knows what he is talking about and can back it up with His authority, wisdom and experience.  So we can rest assured, if we place our faith in Jesus, no matter what happens with our finances, our health or how upsetting the situation in the world may be…“You’re going to be OK!”  

Today Is The Day!

Brittany Maynard was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer.  She was 29.  Following her diagnosis and a surgery that removed less than half of her rapidly growing tumor, Brittany made a decision that would catapult her to the forefront of the death with dignity debate.  She chose to move from her home state of California to Oregon where physician-assisted death for terminally ill patients is legal.  At the time, it was against the law in California.  She chose Nov. 1, 2014, as her final day.  While everyone has their own opinion her Brittany’s choice her mother described her daughter’s decision; “When you’re talking about a terminally ill patient, you have to realize that each death takes its own journey. Brittany was having some very difficult symptoms. She woke up and said, ‘Let’s go for a walk.  It was just a beautiful day and I couldn’t help myself.  I asked, ‘Are you sure today is the day?’  A mom always has to do that. And she said, ‘Yeah, Mom, today is the day.” Brittany returned home to her bedroom, where she was joined by family in what she described as the “circle of love.”  She took her medicine and her last breath. 

Most do not wake choosing today as their last day of life on this earth but all can choose how to live today.  God gives us the remarkable choice to decide how we will live each day.  We may not get to pick the circumstances that surround us but we can determine how we respond and react to everything that comes our way.  Scripture gives us bountiful guidance on how to make the most of each day.  Three short verses  in 1 Thessalonians 5: 16-18 has a mouthful to say on the subject; Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.  Each day we should make a deliberate decision to rejoice, pray and continually give thanks no matter what the day brings.  This is not only God’s will but it is the best formula for overcoming and turning things around.  Notice the verse did not say to give thanks ‘for’ all things but give thanks ‘in’ all things.  The difference is significant.  We life in a sin-scarred world where evil exists, bad things happen to good people and one cannot possibly be thankful ‘for’ all things.  However, when we place our faith in Christ we can truly find a reason to be thankful ‘in’ all situations.  No matter how bad it gets the worst thing that happens to believers in Christ is that they die and spend eternity in Heaven.  No matter how things seem out of control, unreasonable or unfair in this life, and they often are, this world and life is not the ultimate reality.  Sin, injustice, violence, sickness and even death do not get the last word.  Jesus does.  So in all things, when one’s trust and faith is in Jesus, there is reason to rejoice, pray and be thankful. 

Therefore, I believe the more important issue is not how and when we die but how we live.  One of my favorite movies & books is ‘Lonesome Dove’.  For those unfamiliar it is the story of two Texas Rangers; Captain Augustus "Gus" McCrae and Captain Woodrow F. Call.  Captain Call is the ‘no frills’ hard working driven boss while Gus loves to talk about philosophy with a good humored approach to making the most of every opportunity to enjoy life.  In one of many memorable scenes they are discussing a lady friend of past days.  Call focuses on hear death in the discussion.  Gus becomes frustrated with Call’s perspective and says: “Woodrow, you just don't ever get the point – 'It's not dyin' I'm talkin' about, it's livin'!”  Death comes to all whether we choose the day and way our life ends or let it come whatever way it happens.  The point I’m also trying to make is not about dyin’, it’s about livin’!  So choosing our last day, dying with dignity, may not be as important for most as choosing today to live with dignity.  One does that by making a deliberate decision to live each day and each moment of that day as a time of total love. 

Matthew 22:36-40 teaches us that all of our understanding of God’s direction for our lives can be summed up in what is called the greatest commandment.  Someone asked Jesus, “Teacher, what is the most important commandment in the Law?” Jesus answered: Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. This is the first and most important commandment. The second most important commandment is like this one. And it is, “Love others as much as you love yourself.” All the Law of Moses and the Books of the Prophets are based on these two commandments. 

We do not know that we will have tomorrow.  All we have is today; actually this moment of this day is all we really have.  I don’t know if I will live to see sunset today much less sunrise tomorrow.  However, If we make every effort, each moment of each day, to live a life which shows complete, total and passionate love for God and all that is God then today can be our best day whether it is our last day or not.  And if we make every effort, each moment of each day, to live a life which shows complete, total and passionate love to everyone we encounter during the day then today can be our best day whether it is our last day or not.  So whether we will see the sunrise tomorrow or not, let today be the day!